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International Women’s Day – Does It Help the Cause?

By Rhonda Chiger March 07, 2025 Lifestyle

I remember the first time I was asked to participate in an International Women’s Day event. It was 2015 and I was invited by the New York Stock Exchange (NYSE) to a women-only program which included ringing the opening bell of the Exchange. I was very honored to have been invited to this event which consisted of female CEOs of NYSE-listed companies and other distinguished women. As I ate breakfast and chatted with these women, I thought, Wow, we really have come a long way, baby!

All these years later, International Women’s Day is still being celebrated and has expanded into an entire month of recognizing women throughout history. However, I can’t help but feel that these days/months are somewhat superfluous, particularly to American women.

History of International Women’s Day

The earliest reported Women’s Day in the U.S. was held in 1909. Color me surprised as I don’t remember any special day or month being dedicated to women while I was growing up in the 1970s, nor do I remember my mother telling me about her experiences with such. The first time I recall hearing about a women’s day was in the 21st century, and now in 2025 it seems to have become a cause célébre.

Do these designated days and months really matter, or has it become another opportunity for businesses to hone in on a large market segment? I understand why back in the day, 24-hours dedicated to the cause of women would matter and could be influential. I also understand in certain countries outside of the U.S., that women’s rights are still not human rights, but in the U.S., do these pronouncements actually change anything? That question is somewhat rhetorical, as I actually don’t know the answer.

Hard-Earned Rights

I do know that in my life time, women have earned the right to open a bank account and have a credit card in their own name without their husband’s approval. Gains were also made with reproductive rights starting with the approval of birth control pills; the landmark Roe vs Wade case which gave women the right to abortions; and the “morning after pill.” As I write this in March 2025, we all know some of these rights are being pulled back.

Many advancements for women in the workplace have also occurred since I was born. Prior to 1968, job listings were separated by sex. In 1970, women earned the right to be paid the same as a man. Although, I think there is room for interpretation here as women’s salaries are still slightly below that of a man. (It has been reported that in 2024, women made 99 cents to every man’s $1.00, which for full disclosure is a major narrowing of the gap).

Women also earned the right to work when they were pregnant. I do recall my mother telling me that when she was pregnant, it meant leaving her job. At that time, most women didn’t hold prestigious positions and were mostly subordinated to secretarial jobs, which men evidently thought were interchangeable.

Other progress that has occurred in my 60 years includes no-fault divorces becoming the norm. Prior to each State changing this law independently, women had to prove that their husband wronged them. Lastly, it wasn’t until 2013 when women were granted the right to fight on the front lines.

We’ve Come a Long Way, Baby

These are just some of the major changes that occurred since the 1960s, and it amazes me that certain rights that we now take for granted, at one point in my life weren’t available to women.

So, getting back to my original question: do these days/months singling out under-represented communities make a difference? I like to believe that any and all progress is made because people speak out. We ride on the coat tails of those who have come before us, setting precedent that may have been unheard of in the past, but will now make a difference in the future.

To answer my own question, while the hoopla that now surrounds these days/months may be somewhat overblown, the underlying mission is for those who are under-served to stand up and be seen, to appreciate those who came before you, and to always look to improve the plight of others. Happy International Women’s Day!

Also read, This International Women’s Day, Let’s Celebrate the Women Who Came Before Us.

What Are Your Thoughts?

Do you believe days/months dedicated to an under-served population are useful? What is the earliest recollection of your first International Women’s Day? What do you plan to do to acknowledge International Women’s Day this year?

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Cathy Bartholome

A double-edged sword. Yes, acknowledging the incredible historical accomplishments of women is great. However, it is also a validation of women’s second-class position in our society. Additionally, the Orange regime promotes misogyny. We have more battles ahead.

Constance

Yes, it helps! Women don’t start these incessant, ridiculous wars. Women tend to bring people together. We work for peace, civil rights.

Beth

While i appreciate you writing this article, I find some of your comments in this article very outdated and some inaccurate.

Not sure where you found your info on the the gender wage gap but it is definately not .99 cent to a dollar (how nice that would be, if it were true). While this can very a few cents, here is a more accurate description of where the wage gap actually is:

“In 2025, the gender pay gap in the United States is projected to be 83% for full-time, year-round workers and 75% for all workers. This means that women earn 83 cents for every dollar men earn for full-time, year-round work, and 75 cents for every dollar men earn for all work.”

I would ask you to take a look at current events relating to women. Women in top positions of government being fired solely because they are women and the current admin “thinks” she was hired because of DEI. Women reproductive rights strip away. While you did mention this, let’s also add that women have died because of these policy. The current VP has said that women should stay in an abusive marriage.

I could go on with other examples, but my point is that we can’t ignore the facts that are right there in front of us. It is in ignoring the lies and inaccuracies and not speaking out and searching them out that we lose ground.

Join a march, celebrate Women’s month, do a dance in celebation of being a women, meet your lady friends for lunch and include in your discussion ways that you can create a friendlier environment for all women everywhere (work place just a starting point ask your friends where they dont feel welcome because they’re a women, car dealership for examples, and talk about what you could do to fix that).

Yes, we have come a long way from not being able to vote or having our own credit card, but there is a lot more we can do. And going backwards is not an option and is not inevitable, as some may think.

Rhonda Chiger

Thank you for your comments. I am glad my piece sparked a conversation, which was the intent. Before I get into opinions, I wanted to provide you with the reference for the gender pay gap, which is in the link below. There is controlled pay gap (amount of money for same job and same qualifications) and uncontrolled pay gap (median pay for any job). I went with controlled pay as I thought that showed the value of women for the exact same job and skills. I should have noted this in my piece, so thank you for bringing it to my attention. Reference: payscale
https://www.payscale.com/research-and-insights/gender-pay-gap/

I am in agreement with your analysis of the current political climate. My piece, however, was to show how much has changed in my life time (60 years) and as the final paragraph states, we need to speak-up, follow on those who went before us, and always look to improve the plight of others of those under-served.

I certainly don’t believe in going backwards and perhaps I should consider writing another piece about the current environment for women, which I am sure would also spark a conversation. This piece, however, was not meant to be a diatribe about what is wrong with the world vis-a-vis women’s rights, it was to honor those who have gone before me and those who are still fighting the good fight.

Thanks again for voicing your viewpoint.

Constance

Beth, this is not scholarly work. I refer to academic journals for data. Yes, this regime in the US is unstable and dangerous. Not to speak of it does disservice to this blog and the readership.

I love an international community. That we come together to share life experience. I do find many of these adverts totally inappropriate to the article and unnecessary.

Vanya Drumchiyska

Hello Constance, and thank you for your comment. As you know, Sixty and Me is not focusing on political issues. There are too many, and views are too differing. It only causes division, and that’s absolutely not what we want to see happen. We want our community to find safe space here.

Lisa Stege

Thank you for expressing this. After reading several responses above (I haven’t read the rest of them yet), I was getting very annoyed. Politics and religion used to be off the table. We all have our own opinions on the subject, but to assume that one’s point of view is fact is offensive, to say the least.
In my opinion, some of the rights that women have earned have been taken to extremes, so I am not surprised to see backlash occurring.
For example, I view abortion as a sometimes necessary evil, but when it was pushed to the extreme of partial birth abortion, I don’t see how that can be justified, except under dire medical circumstances. Why not birth a live baby and give it up for adoption instead? I wouldn’t be here if not for my bio mom, who carried me to term and gave me up to parents who couldn’t conceive.

Vanya Drumchiyska

Thank you for commenting. I do not want women to feel afraid to share their thoughts/ideas/beliefs/hopes on Sixty and Me. This community is free of censorship, unless offensive/threatening language is used.

Also, I think some rights that women think they have earned aren’t really rights. I think they actually take away from women what women have always had but no longer want to value. For instance, in my opinion, getting rid of your own child is not freedom in any way. It does you so much mental damage, and sometimes physical too, that for the rest of your life this act defines you. This is a loss, it’s not a gain. You have the right to do it, but is it right to do it?

Is it a gain that women can work while pregnant? Some say so, but I think it’s actually a loss, as instead of taking good care of your changing body, you have to go to work and have no time to enjoy the pregnancy and live as healthy as possible.

There are many other so called rights, including the right to work turning into necessity to work, and so many others. Many rights are actually losses, and it’s sad that women don’t realize they’ve lost a lot more than they have gained in their desire to turn into men, not be equal to men.

Jen

Termination of pregnancy is free & legal in most civilized world countries. Americans need to wake up to themselves.
Enjoy the month long celebration, it gives women a chance to get together without having to explain themselves, which they have had to do forever.
Secretaries?? My mum studied to become a nurse after leaving school, & did her post-grad in infectious diseases.
We have to make a noise about International Women’s Day so that women who are still controlled by men can learn that they do have a voice & we support every one of them.

Rhonda Chiger

I appreciate your comments and support your views.

Barbara

I am 76 and growing up we were told that we could become secretaries, nurses or teachers. That was it! I became a teacher and eventually rose to the school superintendent level with advice and support of a male mentor (who had 4 daughters!) Me become a principal? a superintendent? Unheard of in my younger days. We had very very limited career choices in the 1960’s. I am thankful for the women who worked to make the changes we needed, and I am actively working to make sure that we don’t lose them ever again.

Rhonda

Thank you for leading by example. Those younger than you truly appreciate it.

Lisa N.

I agree, and had similar experiences (I’m 72). But it’s not enough!

Vivian Hilder

I was surprised to find out that the Apple and Google Calendars have deleted any reference to International Women’s Day.

Debbue

Yes, not a good sign.

Rhonda Chiger

Given the way the political wind is blowing these days, I guess we shouldn’t be surprised, but we should still be outspoken about it.

Constance

Rhonda Chiger, “outspoken” assumes we don’t have a right to speak up. We do. With 51% of the population, it is time we are heard, especially in this environment.

So many are afraid to speak up, I hear it often. Afraid this regime will somehow retaliate. What kind of life is there when we are censored/silenced? None.

Rhonda

Constance, I couldn’t agree more. Outspoken means to be frank, especially when discussing controversial topics. I think we are both saying the same thing.

Vanya Drumchiyska

Many didn’t feel safe to speak up their minds in the previous regime either. So much canceling was going on, it was unheard of. Perhaps there is some exaggeration in expectations here.

Lisa Stege

Thank you again, Vanya. I don’t see any fear of speaking one’s contrary opinion when it is referring to the present administration. The women who are aligned with my point of view are all breathing big sighs of relief and rejoicing!

Vanya Drumchiyska

This is exactly what I’m seeing too. The removal of censorship on some social media platforms also confirms this.
I hope more women will share their thoughts freely again. It’s why we’re here.

Constance

Vivian Hilder, time to delete them then. Don’t you think?

Debra Lawrence

I’m not surprised. Frankly, what surprises me is that anyone is surprised. It’s exactly what they said they would do. Put us back where we belong: barefoot, pregnant and in the kitchen. What I am is enraged and trying to find ways to fight back. There’s no “bright-sided” version to this.

Vanya Drumchiyska

Hi Debra,
Thank you for commenting. In all things I’ve seen, heard and read about the US current situation, there was not a single mention that supports what you stated above. Women voted for your current government; women are in your current government. I don’t think they are expecting to be barefoot, pregnant or in the kitchen.
Some women might actually want to be homemakers and I applaud them. It is a full time job that does require someone to do it.
Might you be wrong about your interpretation of things? What I see and hear time and time again is the word “merit” which is very important in many fields of work. Merit = quality, and I would choose quality service over mundane service, regardless of who does the servicing. If a woman isn’t good enough for a job, she simply shouldn’t be doing it. If a man isn’t good enough for a job, he simply shouldn’t be doing it.
It’s that simple; has nothing to do with gender or sex or equal rights. It has to do with how good you are at what you do. That’s what should count and that’s what seems to be the priority with your government.
I, as an outside observer, who is very much invested to know what’s going on given the work that I do, like to wait and see how things go. There might be good things in the future that you haven’t considered.
For instance, I was surprised to learn that your president is considering NO TAX for Social Security payments. Wouldn’t you like it if that was passed? I think many women in our community would approve and benefit from such a decision. Where I live, seniors don’t pay income tax at all, which is how it should be as they have paid their dues, so I think the US should follow suit.
Just wait and see, don’t start off thinking you’re doomed.

The Author

Rhonda Chiger is a professional dancer, turned corporate executive, turned amateur dancer, entrepreneur, and PTA mom. Her blog, Rhonda’s Musings, provides readers with essays about life from a middle-aged woman’s perspective. Her blog is both sentimental and witty, always with a message of positivity and moving forward.

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