I remember the first time I was asked to participate in an International Women’s Day event. It was 2015 and I was invited by the New York Stock Exchange (NYSE) to a women-only program which included ringing the opening bell of the Exchange. I was very honored to have been invited to this event which consisted of female CEOs of NYSE-listed companies and other distinguished women. As I ate breakfast and chatted with these women, I thought, Wow, we really have come a long way, baby!
All these years later, International Women’s Day is still being celebrated and has expanded into an entire month of recognizing women throughout history. However, I can’t help but feel that these days/months are somewhat superfluous, particularly to American women.
The earliest reported Women’s Day in the U.S. was held in 1909. Color me surprised as I don’t remember any special day or month being dedicated to women while I was growing up in the 1970s, nor do I remember my mother telling me about her experiences with such. The first time I recall hearing about a women’s day was in the 21st century, and now in 2025 it seems to have become a cause célébre.
Do these designated days and months really matter, or has it become another opportunity for businesses to hone in on a large market segment? I understand why back in the day, 24-hours dedicated to the cause of women would matter and could be influential. I also understand in certain countries outside of the U.S., that women’s rights are still not human rights, but in the U.S., do these pronouncements actually change anything? That question is somewhat rhetorical, as I actually don’t know the answer.
I do know that in my life time, women have earned the right to open a bank account and have a credit card in their own name without their husband’s approval. Gains were also made with reproductive rights starting with the approval of birth control pills; the landmark Roe vs Wade case which gave women the right to abortions; and the “morning after pill.” As I write this in March 2025, we all know some of these rights are being pulled back.
Many advancements for women in the workplace have also occurred since I was born. Prior to 1968, job listings were separated by sex. In 1970, women earned the right to be paid the same as a man. Although, I think there is room for interpretation here as women’s salaries are still slightly below that of a man. (It has been reported that in 2024, women made 99 cents to every man’s $1.00, which for full disclosure is a major narrowing of the gap).
Women also earned the right to work when they were pregnant. I do recall my mother telling me that when she was pregnant, it meant leaving her job. At that time, most women didn’t hold prestigious positions and were mostly subordinated to secretarial jobs, which men evidently thought were interchangeable.
Other progress that has occurred in my 60 years includes no-fault divorces becoming the norm. Prior to each State changing this law independently, women had to prove that their husband wronged them. Lastly, it wasn’t until 2013 when women were granted the right to fight on the front lines.
These are just some of the major changes that occurred since the 1960s, and it amazes me that certain rights that we now take for granted, at one point in my life weren’t available to women.
So, getting back to my original question: do these days/months singling out under-represented communities make a difference? I like to believe that any and all progress is made because people speak out. We ride on the coat tails of those who have come before us, setting precedent that may have been unheard of in the past, but will now make a difference in the future.
To answer my own question, while the hoopla that now surrounds these days/months may be somewhat overblown, the underlying mission is for those who are under-served to stand up and be seen, to appreciate those who came before you, and to always look to improve the plight of others. Happy International Women’s Day!
Also read, This International Women’s Day, Let’s Celebrate the Women Who Came Before Us.
Do you believe days/months dedicated to an under-served population are useful? What is the earliest recollection of your first International Women’s Day? What do you plan to do to acknowledge International Women’s Day this year?
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I’m guessing the author of this article is a white woman with a certain amount of privilege due to educational opportunities and financial stability. It’s is true women have come a long way, but women of different races and cultures, lower income levels and in certain religious traditions still face biases, and are often minimized and ignored, especially in the areas of housing, healthcare and employment. I would suggest that many women less privileged than she would feel this article minimizes their experiences
Bernadette,
I seem to have touched a nerve and will respond to you with the respect you did not show in your comment. First of all, if you read my blog, you will see that I did not have a privileged background. Rather, I worked full-time, while going to school part-time. It was the only way I could afford college. Secondly, I am of a religion that isn’t popular throughout the world. Again, my blog speaks to the myriad of prejudices I have endured.
Now that we got that out of the way. I believe you interpreted my piece differently than its intent. My piece actually honored those that have gone before us. I don’t believe the article minimizes anyone experiences. But, like any good piece of art, readers can interpret it the way they see fit.
In closing, never ASSUME anything just because you interpret something differently. Everyone is entitled to their opinion, but not everything has to do with race, religion, or culture.
The march in Paris was inspirational. In the spirit of the Amazon women of history. We need brave women.
I think its important to keep women’s issues front and foremost.
Hundreds of women are murdered by their husbands every year in Australia.
A couple of years ago, an angry man, whose wife had left with her three beautiful children, was stalked by her husband. He forced her over, threw an accelerant in the car and set it alight. All three children and the mother perished.
Yes we do need this day.
Yes, women’s rights need to be recognized world-wide. Thanks for bringing your perspective to the conversation.
Hi Toni, thank you for commenting.
Official Australian data shows different numbers, certainly not hundreds of domestic murders per year, and not all are committed by intimate partners. See for yourself here: https://www.aihw.gov.au/family-domestic-and-sexual-violence/responses-and-outcomes/domestic-homicide.
Any murder is wrong, and I hope we all agree about that. However, each case is different, and in many cases women simply choose to stay in the situation they’re living in. It is still their choice.
Yes. I participated in just such and an event yesterday. It was a woman’s conference, a small one but very informative. There was a talk from a university professor on the socio-economic history of a particular group of women with very interesting historical references. It was sponsored to a certain extant by door prizes and such but they were all by women led enterprises. I think that the women attending the conference very much appreciated the encouragement and “sisterhood” that was present and the participants were from all walks of life as well as from diverse ethnicities. It was a good feeling. This has to continue. It breaks the isolation and provides hope.
As a woman who did 20 years in the United States Army, I am so disgusted by the secretary of defense for the United States. The orange regime will be a blip in history, but they are trying to send us back 100 years. If they had their choice we’d be pregnant and in the kitchen. Thank you for the article. Yes there are a few inaccuracies but is the article overall incorrect? No but I think it was needed. Thank you for writing articles that make all those who subscribe on both sides of the pond think outside that proverbial box. Hope you did something you enjoyed. Thanks again.
Robin, first of all thank you for your service. Second, I am glad my piece resonated with you and I appreciate your comments. Please note that I did provide a reference for the gender gap pay issue in an earlier note.
Thanks again for taking the time to comment.
On the other hand, my niece just made full colonel.
Hi Ms. Margaret so glade you are doing better and you sound great.You do a wonderful Job keeping us all together and u are so loved by all of us.I can remember being the only woman in the Board Room Meetings held my ground.We have come a long way.Blessings sent S.Tellz