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Let’s Talk Body Maintenance

Last Monday, I went for my weekly swim. My husband went to the optician for an annual eye check. On Tuesday, he had a meeting to discuss a dodgy mole, and I had an appointment with the dental hygienist. On Thursday, I did yoga.

The coming week starts again with the swim, then we both have appointments for a Covid jab. Oh, and then I get my hair cut.

Why do I write about all these disparate activities? What do they have in common? Put simply, they are all examples of what a friend calls ‘body maintenance’.

We all know and expect to incur the costs and time for maintenance of our houses. The roof needs to be checked from time to time, the boiler maintained regularly, and all sorts of unexpected repairs are needed each year. The same is true for our cars.

Well, the same is also true for our bodies.

And the older we get, the more time it takes.

Regular Checks

Some body maintenance is so much a part of our day-to-day lives since childhood that we don’t even put them into a special mental category.

We can start with teeth. Going to the dentist is just one of those things we do on a regular basis. Dentists tend to say it should be every six months (they would, wouldn’t they?), yet many say that it doesn’t need to be that often if you don’t have problems. But you probably go at least once a year and very possibly much more often.

Dentists aren’t the end of the story when it comes to teeth. We are also urged to see a dental hygienist, perhaps every four months. Not to mention all the time spent cleaning our teeth at home and flossing them as well.

Then, there is getting your hair cut. When I was a child, this was done by my mother (not especially well), but as an adult, I have gone to a hairdresser every two months or so. During the pandemic, I discovered that a neighbour was not only trained but also very good, and I have used her services ever since.

For those who want to remain younger-looking, there is also the colourist to take away the grey. I decided to go naturally grey when my hair began to turn when I was under 40, so have never had the pleasure.

Increasing numbers of women also get their fingernails done in a nail parlour on a regular basis. I have never been inside such a place. Perhaps I am missing some fun.

Less Frequent Checks, But We Still Need Them

Yes, we get our eyes checked from time to time and eventually, an awful lot of us need glasses. This means an annual eye check at the very least. Not to mention, the visits to the optician because we sat on the frame.

And at our age, a lot of us are also needing cataract surgery – this isn’t difficult, but starts a whole new round of pre- and post-appointments.

And then there are also hearing checks. I haven’t reached this stage, but it is getting nearer. A whole new round of appointments to look forward to.

At the other end of our bodies, many of us increasingly need our toenails checked out. Some make regular trips to a chiropodist.

Exercise and the Equivalent

But all that is just the beginning. Think of all your efforts to exercise to keep your body trim – or, should I say, trimmer than it otherwise would be.

My two forms of exercise of choice are yoga and swimming, but you might have others. You play tennis, you lift weights, you dance. All good. Not to mention regular daily walking. All part of body maintenance.

In addition, you may have particular parts of your body to which you give special exercise. I have recently started doing pelvic floor exercises on a regular basis (four times a day, day in, day out, using an app). Perhaps you have others.

Doctors and Hospitals

And, as we are getting on, there are the inevitable doctors appointments for one problem of another. These might be for minor checks, such blood pressure, or more major investigations, leading, indeed, to surgery.

Body Maintenance

Sometimes, it feels like our lives are one big maintenance activity.

I hope you manage to do some interesting things in-between.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

I suspect I have left out a lot of body maintenance – can you set me straight? Do you think there is any of this body maintenance you could do without? Do you enjoy any of your body maintenance activities?

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Linda

I never skip routine health checks as I had breast cancer 18 years ago. It came completely out of left field, I was told I had a fibroid and when I want into hospital as a day patient to have it removed they found it was hiding something far more sinister.

At 63 I have some joint pains (a hangover from one of the chemotherapy drugs I was treated with) but I do my best to stay well by eating healthily, walking, looking after my appearance and generally enjoying life. It’s a very true saying that age is an attitude.

Julie

I do swimming and yoga too! They seem to be the only two forms of exercise I can tolerate. I never like those cumbersome machines at the gym. I go to a dental school for my teeth because it’s a fraction of the cost of a regular dentist (even with insurance) and I feel I get much better oral care. I never pay out of pocket for my glasses due to the decent benefit on my Medicare plan. I watch my diet now more than ever and meditate often. Keeping myself OUT of the doctor’s office (with the exception of routine visits) or the hospital for as long as possible is the goal!

Janel

Wish there was a site for people 70 and over. There are so many physical differences among the 60s and 70s. I find that once I reach a really healthy workout level, something physically happens and I am back to square one. I use humor with it most of the time but lately it really gets me down.

For example, I love working in the garden. It isn’t easy to find people to transplant flowers so I do it myself on occasion. Then I pay for it the next week or so. Two steps forward, sometimes one or three back.

Ann Richardson

There are plenty of people age 70 and over on this site. I am 82. I know that everything gets more difficult as we age. I even know that we try to do things ourselves and then we end up with some new ache or pain. You are not alone here.

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Ann Richardson’s most popular book, The Granny Who Stands on Her Head, offers a series of reflections on growing older. Subscribe to her free Substack newsletter, where she writes fortnightly on any subject that captures her imagination. Ann lives in London, England with her husband of sixty years. Please visit her website for information on all her books: http://annrichardson.co.uk.

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