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Let’s Talk Body Maintenance

Last Monday, I went for my weekly swim. My husband went to the optician for an annual eye check. On Tuesday, he had a meeting to discuss a dodgy mole, and I had an appointment with the dental hygienist. On Thursday, I did yoga.

The coming week starts again with the swim, then we both have appointments for a Covid jab. Oh, and then I get my hair cut.

Why do I write about all these disparate activities? What do they have in common? Put simply, they are all examples of what a friend calls ‘body maintenance’.

We all know and expect to incur the costs and time for maintenance of our houses. The roof needs to be checked from time to time, the boiler maintained regularly, and all sorts of unexpected repairs are needed each year. The same is true for our cars.

Well, the same is also true for our bodies.

And the older we get, the more time it takes.

Regular Checks

Some body maintenance is so much a part of our day-to-day lives since childhood that we don’t even put them into a special mental category.

We can start with teeth. Going to the dentist is just one of those things we do on a regular basis. Dentists tend to say it should be every six months (they would, wouldn’t they?), yet many say that it doesn’t need to be that often if you don’t have problems. But you probably go at least once a year and very possibly much more often.

Dentists aren’t the end of the story when it comes to teeth. We are also urged to see a dental hygienist, perhaps every four months. Not to mention all the time spent cleaning our teeth at home and flossing them as well.

Then, there is getting your hair cut. When I was a child, this was done by my mother (not especially well), but as an adult, I have gone to a hairdresser every two months or so. During the pandemic, I discovered that a neighbour was not only trained but also very good, and I have used her services ever since.

For those who want to remain younger-looking, there is also the colourist to take away the grey. I decided to go naturally grey when my hair began to turn when I was under 40, so have never had the pleasure.

Increasing numbers of women also get their fingernails done in a nail parlour on a regular basis. I have never been inside such a place. Perhaps I am missing some fun.

Less Frequent Checks, But We Still Need Them

Yes, we get our eyes checked from time to time and eventually, an awful lot of us need glasses. This means an annual eye check at the very least. Not to mention, the visits to the optician because we sat on the frame.

And at our age, a lot of us are also needing cataract surgery – this isn’t difficult, but starts a whole new round of pre- and post-appointments.

And then there are also hearing checks. I haven’t reached this stage, but it is getting nearer. A whole new round of appointments to look forward to.

At the other end of our bodies, many of us increasingly need our toenails checked out. Some make regular trips to a chiropodist.

Exercise and the Equivalent

But all that is just the beginning. Think of all your efforts to exercise to keep your body trim – or, should I say, trimmer than it otherwise would be.

My two forms of exercise of choice are yoga and swimming, but you might have others. You play tennis, you lift weights, you dance. All good. Not to mention regular daily walking. All part of body maintenance.

In addition, you may have particular parts of your body to which you give special exercise. I have recently started doing pelvic floor exercises on a regular basis (four times a day, day in, day out, using an app). Perhaps you have others.

Doctors and Hospitals

And, as we are getting on, there are the inevitable doctors appointments for one problem of another. These might be for minor checks, such blood pressure, or more major investigations, leading, indeed, to surgery.

Body Maintenance

Sometimes, it feels like our lives are one big maintenance activity.

I hope you manage to do some interesting things in-between.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

I suspect I have left out a lot of body maintenance – can you set me straight? Do you think there is any of this body maintenance you could do without? Do you enjoy any of your body maintenance activities?

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Jacquelyn D Harris

I actually enjoy going to get my hair fixed as I consider it pampering and it really improves my self-esteem. I enjoy my nail appointments for the same reasons. Eye appointments gave become expensive and a drag. I have Medicare and a supplemental insurance but still have to pay $60 – $90 each time I go to the eye doctor, but fortunately that is only once a year. I have cataract surgery coming too and many follow-up appointments. I guess each of those will be $60 so I’ve started saving and am planning to go back to work part-time. I don’t have hearing issues. . . yet and my husband and I do everything that we know of to stay in shape including exercise programs and supplements. It is almost a full-time job maintaining ourselves to optimal health. I’m a true believer of taking care of myself first, then I can assist others better and be a more productive citizen. So, I do all of these things and really have no complaints about maintaining my machine, except the expense and I have very little income.

Paula

Your article on body maintenance is definitely relatable! My daily routine also includes pelvic floor exercises. I’d be interested to know the app you use. Before reading your comment, I was unaware there was an app for that.

Ann Richardson

I mentioned the app because I thought someone might be interested. It is called the Squeezy App. It costs very little. I was reluctant at first because I didn’t want to be nagged by my phone, but actually it is great. I am definitely being nagged (four times a day, although you can alter the timing) and I am doing my exercises and getting a very strong pelvic floor. I was slightly wondering whether it would be a good subject for a post.

Paula

Thanks so much for your reply! I saw Squeezy in the App Store yesterday. Now, with your endorsement, I’ll investigate further and try it myself.
I’d like to encourage you to post an article concerning pelvic floor exercises and your experience with using an app. In fact, I’ll be watching for it in future Sixty and Me issues!

Angie

Body maintenance! Love this article and perspective! Just turning 69, it seems my calendar has more appointments for health stuff than when I was working full time! I try to find activities that combine a bit of both-exercise classes for seniors while socializing. But, there are days when the cycle of appointments can get discouraging and vulnerable thoughts happen. The secret-just as you noted. Body maintenance to age gracefully. Thanks for this perspective!

Sara

I am in total agreement with you and sadly, some of us don’t bother until we need it! I am 65 years old and I feel that looking after my body now should have been done at 50! I see it as preventative body maintenance :). Yesterday I met a 80 year old woman using a walker and she looked good but her body wasn’t telling her that. She said she’s lucky where she is now but regrets not having her family around when she went through some major life threatening medical condition. When we don’t have family, we need that other community and for me, I am fortunate to have my faith and church family. Body maintenance equates to mental maintenance too. Don’t wait to retirement or something out of the blue to rock your world, look after your mental wellbeing too. Thanks for the article. I am going to do my exercises right now!!!

Alainnah Robertson

An excellent reminder that we need to maintain our bodies.

Regarding hearing, the experts recommend having the first hearing test when we turn 60. This gives a base for normal. Then perhaps a few years after that, until hearing aids are required. It’s advised to start wearing hearing aids as soon as they are needed even a little, as this allows the brain to adjust to having them, and helps prevent further hearing loss. The advice is to put the aids into the ears first thing in the morning and take them out last thing at night. Again, this allows the brain to get used to them.

I followed the advice of the experts and have found it worked well for me.

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Ann Richardson’s most popular book, The Granny Who Stands on Her Head, offers a series of reflections on growing older. Subscribe to her free Substack newsletter, where she writes fortnightly on any subject that captures her imagination. Ann lives in London, England with her husband of sixty years. Please visit her website for information on all her books: http://annrichardson.co.uk.

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