Adult Children

Although frustrating, experiencing guilt isn’t all bad. Guilt is a natural emotion that plays a crucial role in keeping our moral compass tuned. But when guilt becomes excessive, irrational, or is used by someone else to try to control our actions, it can become a big problem…

Many parents help their children with education costs. Virtually, all parents pay for any K-12 costs. However, when it comes to post-secondary education, support depends not only on parental ability to pay but also on each family’s philosophy on how much cost older…

Have you ever felt guilty saying ‘no’ to someone you care about? Or found yourself awake at night, worried about a friend’s problems? You’re not alone. While many of us understand the concept of boundaries in relationships, putting them into practice – especially…

With your children gone, who are you now? So many women believe their identity is firmly wrapped around being a mother. I, too, am a woman of a certain age – proud to say I am fabulously 56! I’ve been married for almost 32 years…

Financial independence is coming later to the adult children of the Baby Boom generation. A Pew Research Center study showed that in 1980, 32% of young adults were financially independent by age 22, compared to only 24% in 2018. Other trends bear this out…

I have three wonderful moms in my immediate circle of friends who have been ghosted by their children. Dictionary.com defines ghosting as “the practice of suddenly ending all contact with a person without explanation.” The extreme…

Many of us have heard the instruction to “Put on your own oxygen mask first before attempting to help others around you” on an airline flight. The same idea makes sense when it comes to helping adult children financially. As noted in a previous article, the Baby…

Family estrangement for women in their 60s is more common than you think. About 70 million people in the United States report experiencing estrangement from one or more family members. For some, estrangement is a choice due to self-preservation…

In my first Sixty & Me blog about helping adult children financially, I noted that today, adult children of the Baby Boom generation live in a different financial reality. In this blog, I’ll cover specific issues, such as housing, student loan debt, and other challenges they face in their…

There is a wonderful kind of privilege that comes with working hard for the last three or four decades… Savings are finally growing, the debt and/or mortgage is being paid down, and finally it feels like we can breathe just a little and enjoy life!