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The Future Is Not Binary

By Sheila Grinell June 01, 2024 Lifestyle

My friend Peggy is 87, in ill health, and tough minded. She says she’s ready to die, but one thing bothers her: she wants to come back 50 years from now to see how it all works out. She’s talking about our current struggles over climate, democracy, racism, women’s rights, and the great imbalances between rich countries and poor.

She worries about her great-grandchildren’s prospects for happiness when dystopian headlines loom. Peggy is smart and tuned in despite having ceded control of her schedule to healthcare workers. I am 78 and in good health, but I share her wish to see into the future, and I believe I have a handle on what to expect.

The French Attitude

When I graduated from college, I spent a year as a teaching assistant in the south of France, helping 17- and 18-year-old girls improve their English. It was the first time I’d lived outside the U.S., and I kept stubbing my social toe. For example, two teachers at the high school where I was assigned immediately invited me to dine.

One, a single woman, took me to a café for ice cream and coffee. The other took me to her family home and used the familiar form of address. I didn’t know how to respond in either case. Eventually I learned that the two teachers had warring politics (pied noir and communist, respectively), and each wanted to grab the newbie for her side. The non-fanatic teachers took their time making friends.

When I first met my pupils, they would ask questions calculated to suss out whether I was “égoiste” or “sympa.” Meaning, was I self-centered or considerate. I soon discovered that it wasn’t only me they were judging. They used that dichotomy to categorize everyone, including fellow students, by examining their words, gestures, actions, and reactions in order to lump them on one side or the other of the compassion divide.

The girls who were on the university track made their binary judgments and then went about the business of being good in school. The girls who were on the vocational education track simmered with resentment against everyone from whom they anticipated getting a raw deal. Many of them spoke with the low-class, southern accent that limited their options as far as the French teachers were concerned.

(The best student in the voc-ed track, however, spoke colloquial English just as well as the best in the college track.) At the time, I thought that in America, where people can jump tracks if they wish, we didn’t harbor such resentment. We did (we do), but it was not obvious to me, a white scholarship winner from the Bronx.

 Variations on the Theme

“Égoiste or sympa” is an oversimplification, of course. A given action rarely belongs purely on one side or the other, neither wholly self-serving nor wholly altruistic. Yet we humans tend to think in binary. We talk about capitalism vs socialism; cowboys vs Indians; male vs female; Republican vs Democrat; and the biggie, good vs evil. Binaries pervade social media.

Contemporary authors seem hung up on presenting visions of a future in which something bad, according to the author, has overwhelmed society and the good guys struggle against it. The former don’t always win.

Dystopian thinking is not a new phenomenon. Wikipedia says dystopian literature can be traced back to the French Revolution of 1789 and the prospect that mob rule would produce dictatorship. Until the late 20th century, the genre was usually anti-collectivist, Orwell’s 1984 and Huxley’s Brave New World being among the best known novels of the cohort.

More recent dystopian fiction expands the evils addressed to include pollution, climate change, infection, reproduction, and technology run rampant. The trend seems especially strong in young adult media (think of The Hunger Games, Divergent, and the video games Fallout and Bioshock, for example). Are YA authors more frustrated with society than in past years, or are there simply more of them? Certainly, their marketing is more pervasive.

Predictions

I read a recent dystopian novel set in the near future in which, after a pandemic, motherhood is being controlled by a combination of technological and political forces—people are cloned in incubators for the benefit of the post-catastrophe infertile. Much as I appreciated the author’s imagination and literary skill, I couldn’t find a throughline from today’s practice of invitro fertilization to the landscape of exploitation the novel depicts. Of course, the author didn’t intend to draw such a line; she’s just saying that society had better watch out when it comes to reproductive technology. She’s trying to scare us straight.

George Orwell’s 1984, published in 1949 shortly before the author’s death at age 46, imagines a totalitarian society in which the individual’s thoughts and feelings are controlled. I doubt any early reader expected real life conditions in the year 1984 to resemble those in the book, but the way Orwell conceived of mind control has permeated western culture: Big Brother, newspeak, Thought Police, doublethink.

The adjective “Orwellian” has come to mean “draconian control by propaganda, surveillance, disinformation, . . . and manipulation of the past” (Wikipedia). Dying of tuberculosis, Orwell left us language to describe what it might feel like if a Stalin or a Hitler were to take over. He couldn’t have predicted whether or how the real Stalin would.

What Can We Say?

I’ve decided to advise my friend Peggy to ignore dystopian headlines because, being binary, they only reflect one pole of the story. For every dire prediction, someone’s working on the antidote. For every antidote, someone’s trying to sabotage it. For every would-be saboteur, someone is preparing to sue.

Consider abortion in my home state of Arizona. The Republican-led legislature voted to kill a law from 1864 banning the practice in order to deflect support for a grassroots initiative that would enshrine abortion in the state constitution. The legislators may place several other abortion-related propositions on the ballot this coming November to further confuse the voters. What’s going to happen? An unpredictable, non-binary struggle that may last for decades.

I’m going to tell Peggy not to worry about her great-grandchildren. They’ll have plenty of worries of their own, and plenty of joys.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Do you worry abundantly over current state of affairs, local or global? How do you deal with your worries? Do you wish to see into the future and see how things will resolve?

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Sandra

This article was just what I needed this morning. The dystopian headlines and general public discourse is so “us versus them” “good versus evil” tries to tell me everything is either terrible or wonderful, right or wrong. Was starting to forget that this world is mostly gray. Thank you for giving me a perspective to remind myself that this is a non-binary world, life is never that simple… And that’s a good thing.

Josephine Crenshaw

I similarly would like to have a vision of the future after I’ve passed, though I doubt such an opportunity will present itself. Past generations have gone through chaotic times and change, and the history of the events is fascinating!

Julie

I agree about the past. Young people in the 60s protested the Vietnam War and it was the generations that were feuding. That is where the store the Gap got its name. Those young people back then are probably us reading this article now. We all survived. I guess.

Catherine Vance

Julie! Thank you for his brief, but superb memo. (Yes, I’m 69 and remember, “Don’t trust anyone over 30.”) And thank you for the funfact about how “The Gap” got its name.

Kathleen

Current concerns are so different than any wartime period. ‘AI’ versus a bomb,machine gun, etc. way less eminently harmful than mans latest ‘smart’ ideas. The wrong smart ideas, may lead back to that if not dealt with wisely.

It feels like one the periods of time with the most changes in it. Hard to know best how to handle. I’m glad I’m not having my babies now. Difficult enough for my young adults however.
It feels like we’re all being used by a strange unkind force…that goes for the current political leaders as well. We’re all being played.

It will be interesting to see how this period of time will be written about. One sided,or two? Not enough to come back for, lol . Once is enough.

We need to remember, just because you can, doesn’t mean you should!!!!..

….like letting robots and electronics take over! It’s a shame so many young peoples jobs were given away. Multifaceted values were there. People need people more than quite so much AI.. electronics….etc. Amusing inventions, but they don’t keep you warm at night… the same..

We can become as advanced as unimaginable, but, we’re still the same basic humans God created. Best to discover that before our last hours on earth.

Sara

I agree that our world is in a very sad state and the news these days are only depressing and discouraging. I, too, am filled with gratitude that the life I was given is far better than the billions of people out there. In my own way, I will be kind to the stranger and help where I can. My faith keeps me grounded. Worries rob us of the joy in the present.

Patti Haskell

well said!

Deborah

As individuals, we have little control over the big social and political changes that seem to be on our doorstep. As I write this, I acknowledge the enormous privilege I have based on my race and economic conditions that much of the world does not have. Other than voting and keeping sane while informed about issues, speaking up when faced with hatred or injustice against others, I’ve decided to focus on what I can control, my thoughts and feelings. I am just weary and done with it all. I will focus more on getting out and enjoying nature, hiking, yoga, reading and writing poetry, spending precious time with friends and family, reading a good book and being kind to all, doing good for as many as I can, as long as I can (and that does not just mean for humans).I will live my life as best I can one day at a time with the knowledge that everything changes, and everything is impermanent.

Julie

I love your post! I guess I need to tire of it all and try not to change anyone’s mind.

Deborah

It seems like “minds” are pretty much made up so for my own peace, I’m going to concentrate on nurturing mine. All the best to you.
Debbie

Chris

We CAN to a certain extent control the future by voting appropriately.

Deborah

Right Chris,. I did mention voting. So important. All the best to you.

Catherine Vance

Yes. And a solar flare could end it all in seconds. We are here to do the best we can with what we have and know. Just like our hundreds and thousands of ancestors. And those to follow.

Julie

Worry is a waste of time. Action is far better than worry. I plan to spend my retirement years on humanitarian efforts. Helping and uplifting people rather than spending copious amounts of precious time worrying about the ones who want to tear us all apart…

Diana Everett

Well done.

The Author

Toward the end of her 40-year career as a creator of science museums, Sheila Grinell began a “second act” as a novelist. Her debut, Appetite, appeared in 2016, and her second novel, The Contract, in 2019. She gives talks at libraries and bookstores and writes a monthly newsletter for her readers.

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