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Getting to Know the Place Where You Live

By Patsy Trench March 26, 2025 Lifestyle

I have always had a love-hate relationship with London. It’s the city I have lived in (almost) all my life. As a child, I found it horribly restrictive; I was never allowed beyond the front door on my own. When I went to stay with friends in the country – I went to a boarding school – I could not believe the freedom of being able to step outside the house unaccompanied; to be allowed to romp in the garden without fear or supervision.

How I longed to escape the dastardly streets of London with its noise, its fumes and its unknown hazards lurking at every corner.

Later, as an actress with aspirations to appear on the West End, I resented my city for not inviting me into that illustrious place (I got close but not close enough). London began to represent Failure.

It Took Strangers from Overseas to Open My Eyes

When I found myself teaching theatre to visiting students from the US, I had to gen up on my city’s history, most particularly its theatre history and more specifically still, Shakespeare.

I learned about the old rivalry between the original City of London and the West End; how the City itself, otherwise known as the Square Mile, was – and still is to some extent – administered separately from the rest of London, and in Shakespeare’s time by the City Fathers, who as puritans banned all form of fun and games, including theatre, from their precincts.

Which is why the first ever purpose-built theatres were constructed in remote suburbs such as Shoreditch and Southwark.

The Enthusiasm of My Students Was Inspiring

Even in January, the worst month of the year, my students showed enthusiasm. They told me things about my native town I did not know. (Not all of which, such as the best night clubs and Jack the Ripper tours, was strictly relevant to their ageing teacher.)

They did all the usual tourist things, they even found joy and delight in old favourites like Buckingham Palace and the Tower of London. I took them on a Shakespeare tour of the back streets of the City and Bankside, where Shakespeare hung out.

I learned and passed on the fascinating history of St Paul’s Cathedral, London’s most iconic building, which survived the Blitz in WW2 only because our PM Winston Churchill insisted it be saved for the sake of morale. So firefighters were installed throughout the building during the bombing in order to smother the fires before they took hold. (It is now one of very few pre-war buildings in the City still standing.)

I Could Go On

About the ancient Roman temple of Mithraeus, uncovered during building works in the City and now restored and open to the public. Of astonishing recent discoveries of the foundations of original playhouses dating back to Shakespeare’s time. Of the excavation only last year during building works of a huge Roman mosaic floor near London Bridge. Of the plethora of ancient artefacts that wash up on the foreshore of the Thames every day.

And That Is Just the History

There is so much more. There are not enough hours in the day to visit all the new and old wonders of this amazing city. A trip down the Thames at night-time to see the wonderful light displays on the bridges – an American creation by the way, and apparently the longest art installation in the world.

Every spare moment I have I will join a group to investigate the hidden museums that very few people know about, or to fossick on the riverbank at low tide for ancient treasure. I never used to have hobbies, but I sure do now: discovering the place where I live.

Like All Cities London Is Crowded

And expensive, and stressful, and partly polluted. But thanks mostly to visitors to the city of my birth I have grown, albeit grudgingly at times, to love it.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Do you live in a big or small city? Have you taken the time to be a tourist in your own city? What new have you learned about it?

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Penelope

I live on the coast just a hour 45 mins train ride from London. Now semi retired and self employed my time is more flexible and I’ve started to plan trips to London once a month. Yesterday i visited the Satcchi gallery Fowers Exhibition and then the Physic gardens. I chose to walk to both which took me through Cheslsea and Sloan square , window shopping and past wonderful houses and some lovely gardens. I have joined a face book page showcasing so many wonderful things to see and do in London , including many at no cost. How fortunate I am to live by the sea but have this wonderful city so close.

Patsy Trench

You have the best of both worlds Penelope!

Nancy

Patsy, I loved your story. It was heart warming to read about foreign students inspiring you to dig deeper in the history of your own city. Thanks for sharing it! I hope you continue to author articles for Sixty And Me.

Patsy Trench

Thank you so much for your kind words Nancy, I appreciate them very much!

Linda

I lived in outer London for 20 years until 2004 and worked in the City for 10 years, afterwards at Bankside and Spitalfields. I also read for a history degree with Queen Mary University at Mile End as a mature undergraduate. I moved back to my home in Scotland and my last visit to London was in 2013, after 4 days I was glad to leave and I have no desire to return. My husband is from London, born in Stratford and brought up in East Ham. He no longer recognises it as the place of his birth. Contrary to what Dr Samuel Johnson said we are not tired of life because we left London, nothing could be further from the truth.

We now live in a very different city, Basel in Switzerland. It’s clean, safe and a joy to be in as it has many different nationalities due to the major pharma companies being here. I have neighbours from all over Europe and S America. Lots of museums, galleries and things to do and it’s very easy to get to other European cities. This year we have the European Song Contest to look forward to with a few weeks of fun leading up to it.

We will be retiring to Scotland within the next 2 years and Basel has claimed a bigger piece of my heart than London ever did. My home in Scotland is closed to Edinburgh so I have that to look forward to.

Toni Stritzke

Basel is a lovely city. Beautiful walks in the old city and along the river. Crossing the river with a zip line.❤️

Nell

I’m a Londoner who loves London. Where ever I am, London is always home!

Roz

London will always be my first love x

The Author

Patsy Trench has been an actress, scriptwriter, theatre tour organiser and theatre teacher and lecturer. She now writes books about her family history in colonial Australia and novels featuring enterprising women breaking boundaries in Edwardian and 1920s England. She lives in London.

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