How would you describe being 60 years old in 2 words? That was the deceptively simple question that I recently asked the women in our Sixty and Me community. Why “deceptively simple?” Because, shorter definitions are often the hardest to give. As Mark Twain once said, “I would have written a shorter letter but I didn’t have the time.”
The answer to this question has important implications for older and younger women alike. Older women are often bombarded with expectations. Whether we like it or not, our behaviors are strongly influenced by what society expects of us as we get a little older. It has only been recently that we have started to fight back against aging stereotypes and live life in our own way.
For younger women, getting older is traditionally something to be feared. What most of us fail to realize is that being 60 years old is actually amazing. Of course, there are the inevitable aches and pains that come with life after 60. But, on the whole, most women my age say that this is one of the best times of their lives.
Whether you are 16 or 60, I hope that the following 2-word descriptions help you to see that getting older is something to be embraced. We all see life after 60 slightly differently. At the same time, the great majority of us are grateful that we made it this far and optimistic about the future.
Prasenna: Best ever
Helen: Bloody marvelous
Faye: Promise granted
Anne: Looking ahead
Judy: Enjoying retirement
Lana: Getting better
Margaret: Never busier
Pam: Feeling great
Margaret: New career
Sonia: Healthy and grateful
Lynda: Life altering
Cecile: Having fun
Susan: Ignoring age
Theta: Spring chicken
Mary: Loving wrinkles
Carol: Newlywed at 74
Glenna: Happy and alive
Beverly: Fab and sexy
Cathy: Loving myself
Pauline: Feel sixteen
Shari: Still working
Carol: Loving it
Susan: Very comfortable
Sue: Absolutely amazing
Marsha: Hearty and happy
Gail: Absolutely fabulous
Pat: Free and full
Marian: Better than alternative
Jinny: Full of adventure
Jacquie: New start
Melanie: Absolutely fantastic
Marcia: Best time
Nancy: Amazing and unexpected
Barb: Freaking fantastic
Maurita: Aching but grateful
Jeanne: Still trying
Natalie: travel and (more) travel
Mary: Wonderful and marvelous
Edith: Good health
Denese: Happy days
Marilyn: No worries
Flourine: So blessed
Rita: Getting forgetful
Judith: New chance
Cherril: An achievement
Suroia: Still learning
Vickie: Loving life
Kathleen: A blessing
Robbie: Made it
Mary: Calm spirit
Mattie: Reflecting on life
Wendy: My time
Ginny: Very blessed
Anita: Audaciously wonderful
Nancy: Groovy baby
Jackie: Be yourself
Susan: Loving life
Cindy: I’m 60?
Stella: Achy joints
Brenda: Still learning
Carol: Still young
Betty: Anti-aging
Michelle: Life affirming
Leni: Saggy bits
Gail: Knowing myself
Sandi: Just a number
Maureen: All good
Rose: Rockin’ it
Angela: No difference
Cynthia: Surprisingly young
Lucy: Mixed Bag
Deborah: Loving life
Josephine: Wanting love
Bridget: Freaking awesome!
Donna: At Peace
Marielos: Wise and complete
Denise: Absolutely fabulous
Sandi: Feeling great
Jan: Joyously alive
Dee Ann: Life changing
Lorraine: Another chapter!
Viv: Recycled teenager
Kimberly: Loving life
Donna: Less mobile
Cecile: Having fun
Beth: Not bad
Margaret: Wonderful and marvelous
Leslie: Completely content
Karen: Amazingly interesting
Cynthia: A blast
Roxane: Lots of fun
Barbie: Aches and pains
Susan: Beautiful life
Helene: Not old
Marilyn: Amazing and exciting
Carol: Very different
Renate: Pretty amazing
Juanita: New beginning
Laurie: Healthy and happy
Joanie: Bloody lovely
Mary: Pretty good
Lulu: Love it
Cynthia: Loving life
Barbara: Very grateful
Margaret: Still young
Kim: Liberatingly good
Carol: Exciting and adventurous
Suzie: Sheer bliss
Donna: No different
Claudia: Thankful and blessed
Patricia: Relaxing time
Barbara: Complete peace
Rose: Truly fabulous
Susan: Surprisingly easy
Elsa: Doing good
Jeanette: Bloody terrific
Darlene: Very scary
Thea: Healthy and happy
Maria: Loving life
Michelle: Feeling free
Jane: It sucks
Kathy: Embracing travel
Kathy: Very cool
Carol: loving it
Vicki: Feeling free
Olivia: Loving and healthy
Hamida: Grateful and fabulous
Sheri: Always busy
Hendrikkien: Fabulously beautiful
Shirley: Retirement soon
Annette: No different
Valerie: Bit elderly
Janice: Utterly fascinating
Lins: Loving life
Barbara: New journey
Carol: Unexpectedly fun
Donna: Goodbye youth
Rhonda: Content and excited
Ann: Very lucky
Sheri: Life changing
Deirdre: Just wonderful
Vera: Still working
Catherine: Zumba dancing
Deby: Not bad
Lana: Discovering and reinventing
Maggie: New 50
Bea: Made it
Patricia: Crazy good
Marylin: Wiser but slower
Paula: Loving life
Sheree: Retirement please
Vickie: Life changing
Jennifer: Very blessed
Nanni: Still enjoying
Rita: Very happy
Beverley: Slightly barmy
Janet: Still young
Jane: young heart
Ella: limit-less
JoAnn: Love it
Darla: Trusting God
Ann: Incredibly blessed
Juanita: It’s ok
Deborah: More accepting
Beverly: Mind changing
Donna: Awesome and liberating
Jacqueline: Blinkin’ brilliant
Coralee: woo hoo!
Margie: Real contentment
Diane: Feels amazing
Sandy: Eye opening
Chris: My way
Linda: An adventure
Lynne: The pits
Rhonda: Simply fabulous
Anne: Just fine
Carolyn: Made it
Sue: Awesomely freeing
Linda: Still learning
Carole: New and different
Mattie: Counting forward
Caren: Be strong
Tamara: Only a number
Janet: Very scary
Deb: Toward forever
Jodie: Happy and contented
Liz: Still adjusting
Trish: Very peaceful
Kat: Completely amazing
Brenda: Big adjustment
Trish: Great fun
Suzi: Life is good
Rita: Loving life
Dee: Love it
Chrissie: Absolutely fabulous
Nola: Still kicking
Familia: Simply wiser
Rebecca: Ever onward
Teresa: Feeling great
Gail Dow: Working progress
Joy Lyons: Bloody amazing
Deb: Reality check
Anni: Sadly painful
Patty: Worth it
Nancy: Six oh!
Linda: What happened?
Christine: Droopy saggy
Margo: An adventure
Yvonne: Me time
Pam: Happy age
Janice: Nailed it
Susan: Inner peace
Margaret: Good times
Mirela: Mostly contented
Kathie: Richly blessed
Donna: The best
Ginny: Much fun
Judy: Grateful and excited
Kathy: Appreciate life
Janice: Me time
Ann: Always busy
Linda: Learning experience
Elaine: Adventures await
Linda: The best
What I love about these responses is that they show that life after 60 is nothing like the world assumes that it is. The great majority of women over 60 are living interesting, passionate and authentic lives. We are all grateful to be alive during this time of such amazing possibilities. For many of us, after years of compromising, we are ready to live on our own terms. We are living with: passion and verve.
How would you describe what being 60 years old (or better) is like in 2 words? Please join the conversation.
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