No Keys? No problem! Transportation Alternatives When Driving Isn’t an Option
When physical or cognitive impairment hinders your ability to drive, it’s time to start exploring the transportation alternatives available in your community.
You are not shifting gears alone. According to a National Aging and Disability Transportation Center study, one in five Americans over the age of 65 are not driving and 600,000 adults stop driving every year. “Giving up the keys” – or letting go of the steering wheel – is a natural course of events for many older adults so it behooves all of us to embrace the thought and plan for it!
Fortunately for those of us rocking the second half these days, there are plenty of convenient opportunities available to help keep us on track and out on the town.
Let’s put the pedal to the metal on a few of those transportation options.
Ride-hailing apps like Uber or Lyft or Go-Go Grandparent
Everybody’s doing it! 36 percent of American adults use ride-hailing, according to a 2018 Pew Research Center survey.
Delivery Apps and Services Like Shipt and Amazon
It’s like magic, you order and it appears. A SeniorLiving.com article said one in four seniors ordered their food through a delivery app in 2020.
Public Transportation
Check with your community’s transportation authority and figure out which buses, trains or subways are located near you and the places you need to be.
Chauffer Services
Taxi and scheduled ride services abound in most cities, see which ones are available and determine their rates and destinations.
Teenagers or Young Adult Drivers
Many young people out there are looking for a side hustle or extra work. Ask the youth in your circles if they’d be available to drive you wherever you need to go. It’s a win-win for all!
Family and Friends
Family and friends are your biggest resources. Communicate with them about your needs and see if they would be willing to swing by and pick you up from time to time.
Carpool with Neighbors
Most folks in our communities are heading to the same destinations on a daily basis. Not only does it save energy and gas, carpooling is a fun way to get those errands done together.
Moving to Somewhere More Walkable
Make walk- and bike-ability a top priority when it comes to choosing a residence during your Golden Years. That way, car dependence is not a big deal. Plus, it’s a great excuse to get outside and enjoy your neighborhood.
Cycling
Biking, or cycling, is a wonderful way to get around if you live in a bike-friendly area. Don’t forget your helmet and make sure you are obeying the rules of the road!
Community Transportation Services
If you live in a retirement village or senior living community, you likely have access to a bus or van that can take you to any of the places you need to go.
Driverless Car Technology
There are car manufacturers that build into their vehicles AI operated driverless car technology. Yes, this is our exciting reality!
Acceptance of Reality Is Important
No matter your current driving status, one important consideration is to make sure you are accepting of and ready for the possibility you may not be able to do so one day. The greatest gift you can give yourself and your loved ones is to acknowledge this fact now. To make this thinking official, print out and sign a driving planning agreement or contract via AARP or the Alzheimer’s Association.
Also, be open to taking a driver’s class to assess your skills and abilities. The last thing you want to do is endanger the lives of those around you, in your community or on the road. By making these decisions on your own, you can maintain control and independence on your own terms.
Keeping your car in park or giving up the keys doesn’t have to be a death sentence. Think of it as a reward for all the hustle and bustle and exhausting driving you’ve been doing over the years. This is your time to sit back and enjoy the ride!
Further read, I USED TO BE SCARED OF DRIVING BUT AM NOW WISING UP!
Let’s Have a Conversation:
What services do you use for transportation or delivery? If you are no longer driving, what are some of the highs and lows you’ve experienced?
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While larger towns and cities already seem to have the public transportation issue mostly resolved, not everyone wants to live in an urban/ dense suburban area in their later years.
Its going to take an effort by city and county government to address this looming problem on a larger scale in smaller towns and cities that are not walkable.
In the area I live in, you are lost without a car and the public transportation mostly involves older small buses and riders who are homeless and need those services so the bus is crowded. Our Council on Aging is wonderful but their vans do not hold many people. Uber is cost prohibitive for many.The climate is very hot and humid eight months out of the year which makes walking any distance difficult. I don’t need any transport services yet, but it worries me by what I see lacking out there for the future.
We used to live in the suburbs of Houston TX where if you don’t drive you can’t do anything. Two cars were a necessity. We now live in Cuenca Ecuador. It’s a very walkable town. If somewhere is too far to walk there are taxis. Unless you need to go outside of town the cost is $5 or less per trip.
We no longer own a car. Our cost of living has been cut in half!