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Live Your Life Like a Trapeze Artist

By T. Kari Mitchell December 10, 2022 Mindset

Are you at a crossroads in your life? Are you stuck in a challenging season and wondering what the future holds?

You may be experiencing a “trapeze moment” — a time when you’re hanging on to what’s familiar and just swinging along, day after day.

Do you want to experience a breakthrough? Then you must stop swinging back and forth and prepare to grab hold of divinely designed opportunities!

A flying trapeze artist handles a free-swinging bar at incredible heights, and when the time is right, lets go and leaps to another swinging bar or partner, with grace and ease.

“If you risk nothing, then you risk everything.”

— Geena Davis

Imitate the Trapezist

Take a risk – stretch – venture into the unknown. Risk-taking can be scary, but in order to grow, you must take the big leap. Get out of your comfort zone. Be brave. Release the bar that you’ve been clinging to for dear life. Unclench your grasp and surrender to new possibilities.

When you let go, expect to be uncomfortable. The unknown can be unsettling and unpredictable, but it can also be exciting and exhilarating. As you release the old bar, you may feel like you’re suspended in time – as if you pressed the pause button on life.

It’s all good! This is the silent void – the empty space – your clean slate. In the void, it appears that nothing is happening, but this is your time to create what you want!

“In the beginning when God created the heavens and the earth, the earth was a formless void.”

— Genesis 1:1

The Void Offers Potential

Great potential lies in the void, so take thoughtful action and strategically devise your next move. Create something wonderful out of the nothingness. Turn within and connect with your inner spirit. Reflect. Dream. Plan. The void is where you mentally prepare for the next stage in your life. Set expectations, establish positive intentions and develop your skills.

Value your time in the void. But pay attention and be ready to grab the next specially constructed bar that the Universe will be swinging your way. It may catch you by surprise, but don’t hesitate. Jump! Feel the fear creeping up beside you but stretch forth anyway and seize your opportunity.

Know that you must leap into the unknown, before you receive your blessing. You usually don’t get the blessing first. Once you make your move, the right doors will open, and the right people will suddenly appear.

“Smooth seas do not make skillful sailors.”

— African Proverb

Learn and Grow from Hardships

And if you slip and lose your balance, don’t be concerned. Place your trust in your safety net. Spirit will bounce you back up and guide you so that the next time you make the leap, you’ll be much more confident.

What is the Universe calling you to do? Launch your dream business? Write your first book? Start a program that builds self-confidence in young girls? Your job is to grab the bar when it swings your way, not to determine how your dream will work out.

Apply the concepts of trapeze artistry to your own life, with both feet on the ground. Execute your plan, believe, trust and enjoy the process. Go ahead! You’ll never know what you’re made of, unless you [fill in the blank].

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Are you ready to take a calculated risk? What one thing have you been considering that scares you? Imagine and describe one baby step. How will you feel when you succeed?

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Carol Ann

I am trying to take the huge step in selling my home (in which I have lived, longer than anywhere else) and move across the country, 2,100 miles’ away from children and the life I’ve known for so long. It is a tough step – and I’ve been swinging back and forth, unable to take that step . . . but I am trying. It’s so scary, because I’m widowed and have no one to support me, in any way . . . but I am trying to venture out and do this.

TK

Thanks for commenting here, Carol Ann. Sounds like a new life has been calling you. Sometimes, it can be intimidating to step outside our comfort zone and take a calculated risk. Weigh the pros and cons, consult your heart for guidance, affirm your intention, and remain open to next steps. Wishing you the best! TK😇

Marian

Hi, thanks for the article, going through a separation from my husband of 34 years at this point, not my choice, but boy am I flying high on that trapeze! It has only been 6 weeks but along with the feelings of anger and loss and being broken is the joy of reaching out for new friends and finding that I like having new options even if I wasn’t asking for them. I am rediscovering who I was before this marriage began and at 71 I am even considering returning to college!

TK

Thanks for sharing such a deeply personal part of your journey, Marian. Your words and thoughts have power, and I can feel the excitement and positivity in your words. A bright new future with unlimited possibilities lies ahead. Best wishes! TK🌷

Ann

Thanks for sharing your story. You sound so youthful with all your passion & energy. I wondered if you had to move & if your still working? I hope to feel like you!💪🏻👍🏻💜

Susan

An interesting read. I found it hit the mark with me this morning. I have been working internationally for 18 years across 12 different countries. I have always embraced the “risks” as I navigated my way in new jobs, new cultures, new friendships etc. Common sense tells me that I need to think about returning to a place that I can call home. This for me is the largest challenge I face. I am honest enough to admit that “retiring” has not been a phase I look forward to. I can successfully coach others to make the decisions that are right for them, but sadly fail with my own ‘self-talk’.

Reaching out confidently to grab the swinging trapeze looks very different for me this time.

TK

Thanks for sharing, Susan. Remaining open, vulnerable and honest with yourself is the key. Take time during the next few weeks for quiet reflection, and pay attention to how you’re being guided. Trust your heart, and affirm what’s the best move for you at this particular time in your life. I bet you already know where “home” is. TK😇

Ann

Wow, I lived in one place my entire life. I am still working & very nervous about retiring, having health Ins is a big issue for me & im not 65 yet, that’s when Medicare kicks in. I want to grab that trapeze but I’m not passionate about anything at this time. I wish I could have the feeling of wanting to do this :)

Lisa

Great article!! I saved and will remember this one. Thank you.

TK

Thanks, Lisa! Best wishes on your next adventure. TK🌺

The Author

T. Kari Mitchell (TK), founder of Lifestyle 120, is an Inspired Aging Motivational Speaker & Integrative Wellness Coach. TK is dedicated to helping mature women flourish. Her Sprout Your New Life course provides women with tools to reclaim their health, confidence, purpose, and power so they can rock their golden years. Connect with TK at tk@lifestyle120.com.

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