Let me tell you something most women don’t hear enough after 60:
Here’s why I say that with confidence: I’ve lived it.
I’ve been working out 4–5 days a week for over 40 years. I spent 25 of them in health clubs, helping others stay strong. I even trained like a bodybuilder once and won Miss Monroe County at 26 (don’t worry – this isn’t a “look at me” moment, it’s a “this is possible” moment).
But after two hip surgeries, I found myself struggling to get off the floor – literally. Yoga poses I used to do with ease became awkward and painful. I didn’t feel confident. I didn’t feel strong.
But I knew something most people don’t:
We can grow new muscle at any age.
So, I went back to the basics. I lifted small weights. I hiked, biked, took yoga classes that challenged me in new (humbling) ways. And slowly, I rebuilt my strength, balance, and confidence.
Most women lose about 3–8% of their muscle mass per decade after 30, and the decline speeds up after 60. This loss, called sarcopenia, isn’t just about strength – it affects everything from posture and metabolism to hormones and how well you bounce back from illness or injury.
But here’s the good news:
A landmark study published in the Human Kinetics Journals found that even people in their 90s can build significant muscle mass and strength through resistance training.
Yes, really.
Muscle is not just about how you look in a tank top – although that’s a nice bonus. Here’s what science (and real life) shows us about muscle:
Muscle burns more calories at rest than fat – up to 3x more per pound.
When you lose fat and maintain muscle, you see those beautiful curves and definition.
Good posture, supported by strong muscles, literally makes you appear taller, younger, and more self-assured. It’s your body’s natural power pose.
One study found that strength training reduces fall risk in older adults by up to 34%.
Resistance training improves insulin sensitivity – key for managing blood sugar and reducing chronic inflammation.
Stronger legs = fewer mobility issues. Strong arms = fewer calls for help opening jars or carrying groceries.
Muscle-building exercise releases myokines – proteins that support brain health and may protect against cognitive decline.
This is the stuff that keeps you vibrant, upright, active, and living life on your own terms.
Muscle is the scaffolding of your body – it holds you upright. And when your muscles are toned and strong, your posture naturally improves, which makes a huge difference in how you feel (and how people respond to you).
Research shows that standing tall with good posture boosts mood and self-confidence – even if you’re faking it at first. Strong core and back muscles support this naturally.
When your posture is aligned, your confidence rises – and so does your vitality.
Here are the top objections I hear from women (and what science has to say):
You don’t need one. Home-based strength routines using body weight, bands, or light dumbbells are just as effective – especially if you’re just getting started.
Studies show that muscle can be built at any age. In fact, older adults often gain strength faster in early stages because their baseline is lower. Every rep counts.
This myth needs to retire. Women naturally have lower testosterone, and strength training tends to produce tone, not bulk. (Unless you’re training like a pro and eating like one too – and even then, it’s hard.)
If you’ve been feeling slower, stiffer, or just not like yourself lately – I want you to know:
Muscle is the only tissue we can grow as we age that improves nearly every aspect of our health. It’s the most regenerative thing you can do for your body – and your future.
Want some simple, science-backed ways to get started?
I created a free guide just for you: “10 Sure Ways to Gain More Muscle (Even If You’re Over 60 and Hate the Gym)”
You’ll learn:
To your strength, your sass, and your beautifully toned muscles!
How would you describe your muscles? Are they strong or weak? Can they carry your posture and keep you balanced when walking?
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Hi Shirley, I ride an indoor bike five days a week, but I feel like I need strengthening exercises. Where do I begin? Thank you for any help you can offer. Oh, and I don’t like going to gyms. I used to go to pilates mat classes, but the school fell apart. The new ones are full of 12 year olds (only kidding but you know what I mean!)
Haha! hear you on the 12-year-old set! :) To build muscle we of course need resistance training. You can create a decent all over body program with 5 and 8# dumbbells and progress as your strength does-working biceps, back and legs one day and chest, triceps and shoulders another. Push/pull muscles. Do you like yoga? There are great programs online (I’ve used Gaia.com many times over the years when I’m not in a studio). Yoga works every single muscle, strengthens posture, whittles your waist and slims the whole body. I even used chair yoga after my surgery, and it was incredibly effective! Hope this helps! Keep up that biking…5x a week is impressive and great for your quads, cardio, stress and clearing the mental debris. :)
I needed this today! I’ve been feeling weak and vulnerable. I get an all or nothing attitude, especially with chronic pain issues. I’llhead for the yoga mat today and try for the one day at a time rule. Thanks again
I’m happy to hear you found some inspiration! It’s easy to feel down when our body hurts…don’t be too hard on yourself. I also find solace just getting on my mat. There is something about that sacred space that can help us ground, stretch, move and breathe. ourselves into a new attitude. Best to you!
Thank you for the article! I needed to read this! Turning 67 this year and I just got to have more self discipline!!
Finding a weekly workout schedule/plan is a problem. While I do workout, I’ll end up with a tweak or whatever and have to stop to rest, then it feels like I lost everything in that off time which is just a week or two. I also don’t know whether to do a little full body daily or a muscle group a day. I’ve gone back and forth, but then I get lost.
I hear you, Ann! While there really isn’t just one “right” way to work with our muscles, giving time for them to rest is what helps the muscle fibers to get longer and stronger. Are you using dumbbells? Working legs, back and biceps one day and chest, triceps and shoulders another is a good routine. Push/pull muscle groups larger to smaller. Getting in your body weight in protein is helpful to feed and help muscles recover. And yes…if something feels off, give it proper rest!
That’s a good plan. I’ve done circuit – going through it all daily with lighter weight. I’ve done parts on certain days as well. I change it up. At 64 I don’t feel like I ever can gain, only hold. And I have a tweaky rib muscle that puts the upper body workout, other than arms, at a hold. I never know what’s enough or not enough.
Just get back on and try again! Don’t give up!
I started cycling most days (I’m 63) and it’s AMAZING how strong I feel. I can lift my bike over my head and I am now cycling 17 k 4-5 times a week. That said, I am going to start strength training after reading this article. Good stuff!
I love this! I can so see you lifting your bike above your head…wow! That must feel powerful! You have a lot to be proud of…well done!