I am the mother of three adult children and six grandchildren. The nurturing part of me wants to protect my family from all evil, wrongdoing, and unsavory individuals. I want them to grow up in a peaceful world where all men and women are created equal, where music brings us together, and where everyone has a chance to self-actualize. This may be idealistic, but that’s the way I feel. My dreams for my grandkids are as lofty as they were for the three beautiful children I brought into the world.
I was born in the 1950s and raised in New York in the midst of the hippie generation. I hung out in head shops in the suburbs of New York City, wore beaded necklaces, walked barefoot in the park, burned incense, and listened to music under black lights.
Because I had asthma, I never got into smoking marijuana, but I did protest the war and say good-bye to friends who went to fight in Vietnam. I fought for numerous causes and wore cut-off jeans that swept the dirty streets. Incidentally, I illegally wore the American flag slung like a scarf around my shoulders. As a writer, I filled my journal with musings about the Utopian world of my dreams.
The hippie generation was, in essence, an emotional rebellion against the mindless direction in which our world was headed. The ’60s counterculture asked questions and begged for answers and/or peace. There have been predictions that this intellectual rebellion will soon return because of political and racial oppression, and my sense is that it might emerge sooner than we think. Maybe we also need a resurfacing of counterculture music, sex, and verbiage.
Recently, a childhood friend called to wish me a happy birthday. We shared memories of the peace and loving spirit of the 1960s. I felt the same stirrings in my blood – the same desire to join together and instill change, the pull to help bring a sense of peace to unsettling times. I felt the same compulsion to engage in some type of activism that I felt back then.
What I see and feel now are all reminders of the many similarities our current situation has to the hippie generation, which was a time of excess – racial violence, war, corporate greed, and a buildup of intolerance and dissatisfaction. Drugs were widely used then, of course, so the recent legalization of marijuana in many states is indicative of another parallel with the hippie generation. And, social media has encouraged people to speak up and voice their concerns – political and personal – which can easily lead to a revolution.
I want to be the messenger to my kids and grandchildren and inspire them to keep the faith, be compassionate, and promote the power of interconnectedness. As we used to say in the 1960s, “Make love not war.” This is not just a slogan; it’s vital to our collective well-being. The resurgence of the hippie revolution merely means that we need to reevaluate old thoughts and bring in fresh and poignant new ideas.
It might also be a good time to revisit books such as The Hippie Dictionary by John Bassett McClearly (2002), which is really a history book that casts a beautiful picture of those times. The author highlights some words in the book’s introduction, which I think still apply today, such as: “Hang in there, and keep on trucking.”
Most important, let’s keep in mind some of the words in that dictionary and the core of what this country was built upon: “A democracy is a society or form of government in which the population is given the opportunity to contribute to the decisions that govern them” (p. 126).

As an aside to this conversation, I also recently joined with a colleague and friend to create an anthology called, Women in A Golden State: California Poets at 60 and Beyond (Gunpowder Press, 2025). We wanted to celebrate women who honor the aging process with resilience, wisdom and transformation.
It’s a collection of 175 poets to celebrate the 175th birthday of the state of California. Us elders have so much to offer and it’s my hope that younger generations will avail themselves of all of it. Like McCleary said, it’s important that we make our opinions known through writing, in whatever is the genre of our choice.
In my book’s introduction, I share my poem which I think will resonate with the readers:
Incite change, look for a patch of difficulty amongst the glistening clouds, hunt for an need unmet, or a journey you want to take. Stretch your arms to the sky’s glow, find peace within yourself offer a donut to the homeless, tap into the closet never opened and pull down old journals written before wrinkled foreheads and children expanding like spiders crafting their webs. Sink your teeth into good books write the author to share your enthusiasm for their warm words which make your heart twitch and your muscles flex upon the seat which holds the oldest bones in your family all gone, as you sit in your senior position in the same way you were once the youngest and most boisterous of the group. Teach the world how life circles and how change never really occurs it just begs for a new sunlight. Let yourself go be the one who they all talk about when you are gone.
Have a beautiful day!
What do you remember about your hippie years? Can you draw parallels with the world today? In what activities did you join back then, and do you see a resurgence of something similar?
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ERA, I wanted all women/people to have equal rights
I have never lost my hippie values. I can’t help but wonder how many Boomers have lost their hearts and souls.
Oh, I remember those years, the protest songs, the sit-ins, writing letters to a soldier in Vietnam, working on RFK’s campaign, wearing an MIA bracelet, jeans from the army supply store and clogs.
That soldier made it back home, and he took me to dinner and a movie. The movie was Paint Your Wagon, and my mom wasn’t quite sure if a 14-year-old girl should see that movie; however, she let me go. Then, one weekend my mom drove my two sisters and me in our white Chevy station wagon to Haight and Ashbury in San Francisco, I believe it was the summer of love. And “Make Love Not War” was definitely on my mind. Seeing images on the nightly news from the war was devastating. It was all so senseless. Still, I felt connected to other like-minded people that we could make a difference.
One morning, I vividly recall my mom waking me to tell me that RFK had been shot and killed. My world seemed to fall apart in that moment. Then, MLK. It was a vicious time. Regardless, I felt like folks, aware of the stakes at hand, came together in an almost spiritual way to fight for what is right and just.
Now, with all the attacks on civil rights, human rights and immigrants, that spirit of fighting for what is right and just has returned. We shall overcome.
Reading this brought back so many memories of my own wild and wonderful days in the ’60s! Though I was a bit too young to be a true ‘hippie,’ I certainly did my best to capture the spirit. My older sisters were conservative—too boring for my taste—so I carved out my own little rebellious corner of the era. I rocked my bell-bottoms, sewing patches of butterflies, peace symbols, and flowers onto one special pair. Love beads with the peace sign, granny glasses—the whole look. And the music! From rock ’n’ roll to Motown, it was a soundtrack like no other, shaping moments big and small, from lazy summer afternoons to nights spent dreaming about the future. I even burned incense in my bedroom, much to my mother’s horror—she was convinced I’d die of consumption! Thanks for sharing this trip down memory lane—makes me want to dust off my old records, turn up the volume, and relive the groove all over again.
I appreciate this opportunity to communicate with others who’s present day, senior experience is relatable. I have been seeking a group or organization to join to either demonstrate for this message (make love/peace, not war), or share supportive thoughts and dialogue. I will be carefully considering the revolution ideas, but am also wondering where or how to keep this conversation going in a designated place. Is there an organization that this is or can be attached to?