As I write this, I’m in the back seat of a Toyota Land Cruiser, bumping along a dusty road in Kenya on the way to our next lodge. In a few hours, we’ll be on a game drive, hoping to spot lions, rhinos and, if we’re really lucky, one of those elusive leopards.
An African safari has lived at the top of my bucket list for decades. And now, here I am – breathing in the wild air of the savanna, watching elephants move gracefully through the brush, collecting beautiful local art, and feeling an overwhelming sense of gratitude that I finally achieve this life goal.
I was reminded of the power of seeing a place with your own eyes years ago, standing on the edge of the Grand Canyon. I had seen photos all my life, but nothing prepared me for the real thing. The scale. The silence. The sheer presence of it. That moment changed the way I saw travel – not as a luxury, but as something essential.
A travel bucket list gives purpose to your passions, structure to your dreams, and momentum to your sense of adventure. It’s a reminder that life after 60 can be rich, bold, and expansive.
We all need goals to move forward. It might be the day’s goal of trying that new recipe. Or the weekend’s goal of reconnecting with your oldest friends. Or the year’s goal of finally losing that last 10 pounds.
Or it might be life goals. Those are the ones that stretch us. They ask us to board long flights, embrace different cultures, and open ourselves to the unknown. They wake up our senses and remind us that wonder is still out there, waiting for us.
This was my lifelong travel bucket list:
That’s right. I’ve finished my bucket list. But I’m not finished traveling. Not by a long shot.
So it’s time to start a new list. China? India? Buy an RV and explore America?
Here are some ideas I’m pondering for my new travel bucket list:
If an African safari is on your bucket list, you can read about my trip here:
What’s on your bucket list and why? What destinations have you gone to? Have you had to create a new bucket list? I’d love to hear the destinations that call to you – and maybe even add a few to my next round of adventures.
I have to admit that my bucket list changed a bit when my husband died. There were things we had planned…some make no sense now. But some, like going to Japan, were things he didn’t want to do and I’m going. I recommend subscribing to travel newsletters to get tips on places and activities that you may not have thought of. OAT and Road Scholar offer amazing trips with little planning. Off to Costa Rica in December.
I’m sorry for your loss, Denise. But I am happy to hear that you’re headed off on a new adventure soon. And, yes, both OAT and Road Scholar do a great job and are very senior friendly tours.
I don’t pay attention to bucket lists, it’s much nicer to go with the flow and just discover things, even if it’s just in our own town and surrounding areas. Just do things on a whim, it’ll.bring joy to your life.
People often seem to do things on bucket lists because they think they should, not always because they really want to.
Another pet hate of mine is those round Robin letters people send at Christmas.
I agree. My pet peeve…all the photos, you are a spectator not a participant
Yes, spontaneous trips are fun. But I like having big dreams, too.
You have not really answered your own question- what to do when you’ve checked off all the items on your list. I’ve been fortunate to travel extensively and can honestly say I do not have a burning desire to explore any other specific locations. Does that make me a boring unambitious sloth, or a happy and contented 66 year old happy to reflect on a life well lived??
I would say you’re the happy and contented 66 year old 😊
It absolutely makes you a happy and contented 66-year-old with lots of great memories. I plan to be you one day in the future!
Margaret, you don’t need to post this comment but I have to tell you, I find travel articles like this upsetting because I have zero funds available for exotic travel. The small amount I am able to save for travel all gets spent flying to England to visit my grandchildren. The unrecognized assumption in the author’s POV seems to be that anyone reading could afford such amazing luxuries. I’m happy for her that she is able to travel so widely but wonder where her money came from. And I know that for many or most of us, especially the single ones like me, the view from our apartment balconies can only be augmented by relatively small-scale getaways. What other sorts of travel adventures could be put on a bucket-list for those of us without much income? I enjoyed her mentioning goals in the kitchen or normal life, so it balanced my frustration a bit, but for me, a sentence or two recognizing the expense and her incredible financial fortune would be welcome. Thanks for listening. <3 <3
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Hi Tanis:
I’m jealous that you have grandchildren in England to visit! The grass is always greener, right?
As for how I afford to travel — that bucket list was tackled over a lifetime, not in a year. And I prioritize travel — I live in a teeny tiny house and drive a very old car. I buy all my clothes in thrift shops. I charge every purchase on a points and miles credit card and still fly in economy so I can take more trips.
And, just to give you another idea: I have two sets of friends who have traveled the world for free. They house and pet sit for people all over. They stay in places that are far nicer than I could ever afford — houses overlooking the Mediterranean, a beach house in Florida, etc. If you’re already in England, it’s a pretty cheap flight to get elsewhere in Europe. There are several places online where you can register as a pet sitter/ house sitter.
Just a few ideas…
Thanks Cindy! I also live small and frugal, but it’s true I don’t prioritize exotic travel, so that puts it all in perspective! And great ideas. Thank you!
Great bucket list!!
We are child free and travelled over the years
Europe -Italy, France
Greece
Turkey
China- Hong Kong
Thailand
Caribbean USVI, Bermuda, Antiqua
Mexico – Cancun
My bucket list was a river cruise on Danube, Rhine and Main.check May 2024
Egypt, Cario check May 2024
Jordan,Petra..check March 2025
Building my new bucket list… Switzerland in May 2026
Scotland for a Scotch tour in Island of Islay .
Mexico City and Bacalar
Croatia
I don’t like this. You act as if you are heroically fulfilling some noble task. Running around the world – not a duty, not a charity, but an expensive and environmentally destructive hobby. I think.
Kati, Budapest
I live in NW Switzerland and where possible try to travel everywhere by train and public transport. We haven’t even had a car in the 10 years we’ve been here because public transport is excellent.
Point well taken. Glad you posted.