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Technology and the Older Person

By Patsy Trench December 27, 2023 Lifestyle

If you are reading this, I already know one or two things about you. Firstly, that you are (probably) over 60. You are (probably but not necessarily) female, and lastly, that you at least have some grip on technology.

We’re Online After All

And a lot of us spend a lot of time there. I could not now live without email, the web, YouTube, online banking and shopping, booking train tickets and the odd streaming service. I could not publish my books without a good deal of knowledge of technology. I communicate with my friends mostly online because I’m not that keen on using the phone. Nowadays, it seems intrusive, I feel I almost have to ask permission to call someone.

That Is Not the Case for Many Older People

I do know people who don’t own a smartphone or use the internet at all. I have absolutely no idea how they manage their daily lives, but they obviously do because for the most part – I assume – they have chosen to live that way. These are the people nowadays who I would argue are being discriminated against.

They are the people who find it difficult to buy a train ticket because so many ticket offices here in the UK are being closed. They are the people who rely on actual bank buildings and post offices because they do all their banking in the old-fashioned way, face to face, and banks and post offices are disappearing fast.

They get off their backsides and go to actual shops to do their shopping. Moreover, they don’t spend/waste half their time scrolling through social media.

You Could Argue These Are the People Who Are Most in Tune with the World Around Them

Who aren’t so glued to their mobiles on public transport that they fail to notice the elderly/infirm/pregnant person standing right next to them who could do with a seat. Who use old-fashioned printed maps to find their way around, so if their GPS fails or gets confused, they can still figure out how to get to their destination. Who aren’t so totally plugged into something-or-other as they walk down the street, they can still hear the birds singing.

And If They Do Get Lost, They Are Not Averse to Asking for Directions

Even men! (Well… ) I cannot figure out Google Maps for the life of me. I was standing in the middle of a six-road junction in Elephant and Castle recently (in London) figuring out how to find a theatre and the helpful Google lady told me to ‘turn left’. Eventually, I found an actual person who knew exactly where it was and – well, Bob’s your uncle!

Technology Serves Many Purposes

Of course, it does. I could not publish or publicise my books without it. I could not submit my tax return or transfer money to and from bank accounts without it. All freelancers have to have some kind of techie knowledge, if only to know how to create a website or use social media.

Technology Saves Time

So they say. But does it? People seem to be working longer and longer hours these days, and it’s not clear whether productivity has increased accordingly. That could be because the time they are saving online is being diverted, also online, to endless scrolling through cat and toddler videos (or are they called reels nowadays?) on social media.

Is Technology Responsible for a Rise in the Crime Rate?

I cannot be the only person who feels tempted to vent my frustration with a ‘computer that says no’ (a reference to a character in a TV series called Little Britain) by committing violence on something or someone – anything or anyone.

If you’re of the generation who were not taught these things, you pick them up – or try to – as you go along, in your own random way. Hence the frustration. There was a time long, long ago when pretty well everyone understood the machines and equipment they used. Car owners knew how to fix the engine and change a tyre. Nowadays you need a degree in IT to do just that.

My Two-Year-Old Grandson Knows What YouTube Is

And how to find it on my phone. He knows his way around my phone better than I do. Should I be worried? Probably not. I can’t wait for him to be old enough to act as my tech advisor.

The author and her bête noire (Sketch by Anna de Polnay).

Let’s Have a Conversation:

What frustrations do you have with technology? How easy is it for you to get around the internet and various apps on your phone? Do you think technology has made our life easier or to the contrary?

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jennifer

My concern about technology is not so much about me but about the extent of crime on the internet. I live in Montreal Canada. Pornhub is located here (and elsewhere). This giant of the internet faces more than ten lawsuits put forward by Pornhub’s victims.

Terrie

Because I use “technology” everyday for a myriad of things, my frustration is with people my age who don’t. And they have reasons (I.e. excuses) as long as their arm. No internet capability, no phone, no email or text because it’s “too hard” or “too complicated.” My thought is, they just don’t want to try. Maybe they are afraid of making a mistake or breaking the device. These same peeps are amazed at what a cell phone can do besides be used as a phone!

Patsy Trench

Some really interesting comments here. If the commenters are representative it shows Sixty and Me subscribers are ahead of the game when it comes to technology. I agree it is hard to find face to face classes and learning through YouTube is useful but not the same.

Beth Rice

AARP offers technology classes online

DKroth

Sad, but so far, I have read all of the emails that “you” have sent to my inbox. I’m 75 and cannot believe that women that respond to your site are so torpid. Please, most women my age are far more informed. Please do not portray +65 as being uninformed.

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The Author

Patsy Trench has been an actress, scriptwriter, theatre tour organiser and theatre teacher and lecturer. She now writes books about her family history in colonial Australia and novels featuring enterprising women breaking boundaries in Edwardian and 1920s England. She lives in London.

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