One day, while visiting one of our grandchildren, an 8-year-old, I stepped out the back door to locate her. She was perched snuggly up in an oak tree, reading; as if that’s where everyone might choose to spend their afternoon.
I watched the expressions on her face while the sun touched her hair. A breeze came through and seemed to wisp up some fairy dust as she escaped to her world filled with enchantment, dragons, and princesses. That same mystical world where Alice really does have a conversation with a rabbit, Pete spends an entire day with the dragon, and Clara actually is swept off her feet by the nutcracker.
I can’t think of a place I’d rather be than having a front row seat to this great unfolding miracle; a child loving to read.
He that loves reading has everything within his reach.
—William Goodwin
Isn’t that what we wish for our children and our grandchildren, for them to have everything within their reach?
The love of reading will give them the advantages, the opportunities, the preparation and the training that will enable them to go out and succeed. Books offer this to our kids and expand their world.
The love of reading opens doors not only for our children but for all of us.
Research shows that regular reading:
Who can argue with the many benefits of reading? No matter what age we are, the love of reading can be a gift offering that stays with us forever.
And yet, sadly, I continue to hear about the decline in the enjoyment of reading.
According to the U.S. Department of Education, 67% of fourth grade students are below proficiency in reading.
Dianna Gioia, chairman of the National Education Association, explains it this way, “As our kids read less, they read less well. And when they read less well, this has very serious consequences, not just to their academic performance, but to their economic performance and ultimately to their ability to connect with a civic life and political life.”
What are we to do with this dismal research?
Neil Postman, an American author, educator, and cultural critic, further warns us of the consequences of the fallout in reading. “A mode of thinking is being lost,” he laments, “We are losing a sort of psychic habit, a logic, a sense of complexity, an ability to spot contradictions and even falsity.”
Postman believes this loss is now being felt in our cultural activities and in our politics, as well as in our children’s SAT scores, and that it could get worse. But of course, such prophecies are delivered in print, so no one pays much heed.
Shall we sit ideally by, silently watching as the reading, the thinking and the heartbeat of our future generations flatline?
Are we really okay with that? Are we satisfied to leave behind a generation of children that don’t love reading?
Everyone must leave something behind when he dies, my grandfather said. A child or a book or a painting or a house or a wall built or a pair of shoes made. Or a garden planted. Something your hand touched some way…. It doesn’t matter what you do, he said, so long as you change something from the way it was before you touched it into something that’s like you after you take your hands away…
—Ray Bradbury, Fahrenheit 451
So then, what will keep us – yes, you and me – from being a moving force that transfuses a love of reading back into the next generation?
I know, I know… there are many things we take notice of that are not as they used to be and, quite frankly, not to our liking. We talk about the ‘good old days’ like our grandparents did. And far be it for us to intrude, right? So we go to our corners, make ourselves smaller and quieter and mind our own business… Far be it for us to put our noses in others’ business!
Well, I say bologna to that! I believe it’s time for those of us who know better to do better. I think we should take a stand!
One of the greatest gifts adults can give to their offspring and to their society is to read to children.
—Carl Sagan
There are things we can do to fix this reading ailment, for the betterment of ourselves, the younger generation and the future generations to come. And who better to lead the charge and the challenge than us – those who have benefitted from our love of reading in the past and continue to reap the benefits today.
I want to resurrect this dying trend and breathe life back into what we know equips our children to be active participants in creating a better future world.
I spoke with a children’s librarian, Susan Clark. She, like many others, would love to see us inject our grandkids with our own sense of delight and wonder we receive from reading.
And although you may not have a grandchild yet, or one living nearby; there is a child out there that needs you. Volunteer to make a difference in a child’s life. Check out opportunities to read at libraries, schools, hospitals, book stores or community events.
You can find magic wherever you look. Sit back and relax, all you need is a book.
—Dr. Suess
As well as sharing some of her thoughts and reading tips, Mrs. Clark also suggested some great book choices. I will share both in future posts.
Do you love to read? Have you taught your children and/or grandchildren to love books? What do you think is the problem behind kids’ lack of reading habits?
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I used to read to a partially blind person. I loved it. Together we laughed and cried and became engrossed in the books. I miss that. Apparently, my local library only offers audio books…no doubt a COVID result. I’ve offered my service as a volunteer, but have never been called back. Recently, a notification has been sent out from our local elementary school for volunteers to the children. Maybe there’s hope yet.
What a wonderful way to serve your community. You sound like such a valuable resource. I hope the opportunity for you to work in the elementary schools works out for you.
Reading is a lifeline….my chidlren are readers but alas not the grands…too much electronic equipment at their disposal…
Yes, I fear that is what we are up against with our young people…electronics. But don’t give up…how about putting out a book challenge to them?
Beautifully written. When I was a child, our rural public library had a huge collection across many genres. The librarian was very encouraging and recommended books to me all the time. Now that I have returned to that rural area in retirement, that same library is a shell of its former self. The local staff librarians have no say in the collection (the district library decides what “the rural community” must be interested in and sends that to them). The collection has about 10 books on the classics and a lot of Harlequin paperbacks and a huge collection of DVDs. It’s insulting to the community. My home collection looks like the New York Public Library by comparison. So problem #1 is that a few thoughtless people are deciding for the many. Problem #2 is that not just children but adults are getting all their “written words” from the web. I remember asking work colleagues which books they were reading. 10 out of 10 replied that they hadn’t read a book in years. “I just read scholarly journals or trade journals for my industry, all of it online.” If children don’t see their parents holding a book, they probably won’t, either. I have a collection of over 3000 books, fiction and nonfiction and another 600 cookbooks. When my 60-something friends visit, the usual remark is “how are you going to move those books if you ever relocate?” It’s never “which is your favorite book?” or even “what are you reading right now?” So Problem #3 may be us. We need to petition those in charge for better reading materials in the public library, we need to be seen with books (like when you’re at the doctor’s office or waiting in line at the post office) and when we have our next picnic, pack a basket with books to read under a tree.
Thank you for your comments. You made some thought-provoking points.
And to go along with what you said, one of the things I came across while researching was information reminding us that this decline of reading is not only sad news for our children but for grownups as well……
In a new study conducted by WordsRated, an international research and data group focused on reading and the publishing world, only 48% of adults finished a whole book in the last year.
And in one study done in the UK only one in three adults rarely or never read for pleasure.
I love that you have such a large collection of books…that’s amazing!
For years I’ve always wanted to read for enjoyment. I was always too busy or too tired. Yet I love going to 2nd hand bookstores, library book sales, hospital Ladies Auxiliary book resale carts, and garage sales. I buy books like most people buy clothes, jewelry, etc. After I retired at age 70, I thought surely I would take time to read. I’ve squeezed in a book here and there. After being a caregiver full time for my daughter, who died in August 2022, I have just begun to take the time to read. I can’t get enough. At my age (76), we are supposed to keep moving. I asked my doctor how I was supposed to read a book and yet keep moving. So I take frequent breaks and walk around the house. At least I’ve gotten a start.
You are an inspiration to all of us. Not only is it never to early to learn to love reading…it’s also never too late. Good for you!
I have a large collection because my parents always read and so I’ve integrated their collection with mine now that they have passed away. They were farm people who didn’t have a lot of money but reading good books was critical and so money was always prioritized for those things. Our priorities show in many ways. Theirs left a proud legacy.
I love this! What a beautiful example of leaving a legacy!
This such a wonderful proactive article.
You inspired me to find a place to volunteer to read to children. Don’t have grandkids.
Thank you so much for helping me to realize I can share my love for reading!
You made my day! Thank you and bless you…you are going to change a child’s life!
I’d love to hear more about it. There will be two other pieces published to coincide with this article; so make sure and let us know more about your volunteer plan.
The problem is that parents do not give their children enough time. My girls and my 7 grandchildren have all had my time whilst I read to them. I always brought books for them abd they gave always seen me having a book to hand. It is one of life’s greatest pleasures. Watersons cafe is one of our favourite places.
I love that you have a special cafe you go to read. Our being a reading role model is so important! Children don’t listen to what we say if that don’t see us following up our words with actions!